Today a new sun rises for me; everything lives, everything is animated, everything seems to speak to me of my passion, everything invites me to cherish it."

~Anne de Lenclos

 
 

Welcome to Uplift! A New Weblog for Women

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Up.lift __ n.  1. Moral or spiritual elevation.  2. A movement to improve social, moral, or intellectual standards. 3. An agent or influence causing upward movement or lifting.

Linda Robinson, ACC is a professionally trained and certified Personal Success Coach & Facilitator specializing in the empowerment of women and girls through personal growth, spiritual awareness, and community.

Uplift! is a new blog for women that offers insights, resources and interactions in celebration of the feminine spirit.

Please, browse around at your leisure, join in the conversation by clicking on “Comments”, and connect with your sisters.  Share your true self, your creative ideas and resources, your wisdom and intuition.

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Spirit First Indeed: Thank You Jimmy Carter!

August 26, 2009

Losing My Religion for Equality

by Jimmy Carter
July 15, 2009

Women and girls have been discriminated against for too long in a twisted interpretation of the word of God.

I have been a practising Christian all my life and a deacon and Bible teacher for many years. My faith is a source of strength and comfort to me, as religious beliefs are to hundreds of millions of people around the world. So my decision to sever my ties with the Southern Baptist Convention, after six decades, was painful and difficult. It was, however, an unavoidable decision when the convention’s leaders, quoting a few carefully selected Bible verses and claiming that Eve was created second to Adam and was responsible for original sin, ordained that women must be “subservient” to their husbands and prohibited from serving as deacons, pastors or chaplains in the military service.

This view that women are somehow inferior to men is not restricted to one religion or belief. Women are prevented from playing a full and equal role in many faiths. Nor, tragically, does its influence stop at the walls of the church, mosque, synagogue or temple. This discrimination, unjustifiably attributed to a Higher Authority, has provided a reason or excuse for the deprivation of women’s equal rights across the world for centuries.

At its most repugnant, the belief that women must be subjugated to the wishes of men excuses slavery, violence, forced prostitution, genital mutilation and national laws that omit rape as a crime. But it also costs many millions of girls and women control over their own bodies and lives, and continues to deny them fair access to education, health, employment and influence within their own communities.

The impact of these religious beliefs touches every aspect of our lives. They help explain why in many countries boys are educated before girls; why girls are told when and whom they must marry; and why many face enormous and unacceptable risks in pregnancy and childbirth because their basic health needs are not met.

In some Islamic nations, women are restricted in their movements, punished for permitting the exposure of an arm or ankle, deprived of education, prohibited from driving a car or competing with men for a job. If a woman is raped, she is often most severely punished as the guilty party in the crime.

The same discriminatory thinking lies behind the continuing gender gap in pay and why there are still so few women in office in the West. The root of this prejudice lies deep in our histories, but its impact is felt every day. It is not women and girls alone who suffer. It damages all of us. The evidence shows that investing in women and girls delivers major benefits for society. An educated woman has healthier children. She is more likely to send them to school. She earns more and invests what she earns in her family.

It is simply self-defeating for any community to discriminate against half its population. We need to challenge these self-serving and outdated attitudes and practices - as we are seeing in Iran where women are at the forefront of the battle for democracy and freedom.

I understand, however, why many political leaders can be reluctant about stepping into this minefield. Religion, and tradition, are powerful and sensitive areas to challenge. But my fellow Elders and I, who come from many faiths and backgrounds, no longer need to worry about winning votes or avoiding controversy - and we are deeply committed to challenging injustice wherever we see it.

The Elders are an independent group of eminent global leaders, brought together by former South African president Nelson Mandela, who offer their influence and experience to support peace building, help address major causes of human suffering and promote the shared interests of humanity. We have decided to draw particular attention to the responsibility of religious and traditional leaders in ensuring equality and human rights and have recently published a statement that declares: “The justification of discrimination against women and girls on grounds of religion or tradition, as if it were prescribed by a Higher Authority, is unacceptable.”

We are calling on all leaders to challenge and change the harmful teachings and practices, no matter how ingrained, which justify discrimination against women. We ask, in particular, that leaders of all religions have the courage to acknowledge and emphasise the positive messages of dignity and equality that all the world’s major faiths share.

The carefully selected verses found in the Holy Scriptures to justify the superiority of men owe more to time and place - and the determination of male leaders to hold onto their influence - than eternal truths. Similar biblical excerpts could be found to support the approval of slavery and the timid acquiescence to oppressive rulers.

I am also familiar with vivid descriptions in the same Scriptures in which women are revered as pre-eminent leaders. During the years of the early Christian church women served as deacons, priests, bishops, apostles, teachers and prophets. It wasn’t until the fourth century that dominant Christian leaders, all men, twisted and distorted Holy Scriptures to perpetuate their ascendant positions within the religious hierarchy.

The truth is that male religious leaders have had - and still have - an option to interpret holy teachings either to exalt or subjugate women. They have, for their own selfish ends, overwhelmingly chosen the latter. Their continuing choice provides the foundation or justification for much of the pervasive persecution and abuse of women throughout the world. This is in clear violation not just of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights but also the teachings of Jesus Christ, the Apostle Paul, Moses and the prophets, Muhammad, and founders of other great religions - all of whom have called for proper and equitable treatment of all the children of God. It is time we had the courage to challenge these views.

Reprinted from The Age

 

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Comfortable In Your Own Skin

June 5, 2009

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Yoga at Sunrise“I just looked at my reflection in the mirror, thinking how I was beginning to know and love the woman who was me. I was beginning to feel comfortable in my own skin; it was an elusive and precious feeling that I had longed for all my life.”

This quotation by Heidi Waldrop describes just how I feel and as I read it, I realized that it’s one of the things I most want for women — to feel comfortable in our own skin.

For me this means valuing and taking care of my strong, healthy body not just for how it looks but for what it allows me to do in the world. And it means finally getting comfortable with the introverted part of me, celebrating my unique strengths and thriving in an extrovert world. (Did you know that there are many advantages to being  an introvert? I am amazed at what I’ve learned lately on this subject! More in a future post…)

My point is that getting to know your true nature, loving who you are right now, and having compassion for your perceived flaws is a great start to leading a more joyful life.

Sure, we all have imperfections and things we’d like to change about ourselves or our lives. And we have definitely all made mistakes! But I say that forgiving and showing compassion towards ourselves first is good practice for being that way with others.

You are a one-of-a-kind, precious being and you must cherish your own sweet self, woman! Don’t look for someone else to make you feel better. You must do for yourself the things that make you feel good.

Why not carve out some quiet time soon and consider:

♥  What makes you feel happy?

♥  What is it that you really like about yourself?

♥  What would make you even more comfortable in

     your own skin?

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